I didn’t like getting muddy and all of that, but now I am perfectly fine with it, plus I meet new people.
My health wasn’t good when I first started playing, but I’m fitter and healthier now and I have new skills, I know what I’m doing on a rugby pitch and I have a set routine.
I led my team – the Bumble Bee Barbarians – as a club captain to the first Mixed Ability Rugby World Cup final in Bradford in 2015.
The Bumbles got to the final with my help. I even came up with the name the Bumble Bees to keep the association with the mainstream team, the Bees.
I have been on many tours including France, Spain, Wales, Scotland or Ireland, but I can’t tell you much about this, because ‘what goes on tour stays on tour’.
Taking the sport beyond the pitch
I was asked to join International Mixed Ability Sports (IMAS) as a trainer and expert by experience starting as a volunteer, but then eventually I started to be paid for my work.
At IMAS we prepare and deliver presentations initially to different rugby clubs but now loads of new sports have started Mixed Ability teams and we now go to colleges, universities and we even train doctors.
For example, we host placements for students, we go into GP practices and train social workers, so they can help people be healthier playing sport.
I also helped make a guidebook for new clubs starting up – which also included videos – plus other easy read documents and I went to Holland to train their rugby national governing body and did a bit of coaching.
At that time, I was also learning to be a coach with White Rose Rugby Coaching.
I wanted to help people by working with people and I also wanted to have a qualification to work in rugby.
When lockdown came, I did a series of videos with IMAS to share easy ways to do exercise outside in the garden to keep fit and healthy, especially for people with a disability or long-term conditions like diabetes.
I managed to stay connected with the audience and move the training online and Pandemic Positivity was born.
When it came to do the exams for my coaching qualification I got a scribe and extra time. I was very proud when I passed and this is my highest ever qualification.
White Rose are very pleased with me and now I have a paid job.
I am a qualified coach and can deliver multi-sports to primary and secondary schools, summer camps and sports clubs all over Yorkshire. I have even delivered a few sessions in a prison!
Being a coach makes me feel excited, it’s brilliant and I’m happy with what I’m doing plus I’m more active.
My family is proud of me and my sister and my mum are both very pleased, especially when I won the Coach Core Graduate of the Year Apprenticeship Award.
I want everyone like me to just come and try out Mixed Ability sports because there’s nothing to be scared of.
People at the clubs always welcome you, you meet different people of all abilities, plus it’s fun, you go out socially and make a lot of friends.
I also invite you to follow IMAS on social media – we’re on Facebook, Instagram and on X (formerly Twitter) – to find out what we do and get involved.